Bullying can happen anywhere. Many children and teens are regular victims of bullying, which can lead to serious emotional scarring and problems with the victim's self-esteem and self-image. Correcting these behaviors before they start or get out of hand are important for parents and educators to keep in mind. In this article we are discussing the facts on bullying and how you can watch for warning signs in victims of bullying as well as in children who might be bullies themselves.

Types of bullying:

Verbal. This type of bullying usually involves name calling and or teasing

Social. Spreading rumors, intentionally leaving others out of activities on purpose, breaking up friendships are all examples of social bullying.

Physical. This traditional form of bullying involves hitting, punching, shoving and other acts of intention physical harm.

Cyberbullying. This method of bullying involves using the Internet, texting, email and other digital technologies to harm others.

Facts on bullying:

Imbalance of power. Typically those who engage in bully-like behaviors use their strength, popularity or power to harm, control or manipulate others. They will usually target those who are weaker in size or may have a difficult time defending themselves.

Intent to cause harm. A bully is a person who does not do things by accident. The bully intends to physically or emotionally injure a person or group of persons.

Repetition. Typically incidents of bullying are not a one-time thing. Bullies target the same person or group over and over again.

It is important for parents to discuss the facts on bullying with their children to help teach them how to watch out for bullying and to avoid being bullied. There are several signs parents can look for when evaluating if your child is a victim of bullying.

Comes home with unexplained injuries or with damaged or missing clothing or other belongings

Has change in eating habits

Makes excuses not to go to school

Has fewer friends

Feels helpless

Talks about suicide

Acts out of character

Avoids certain places or playing outside alone

Feels like they are not good enough

Has trouble sleeping

Blames themselves for their problems

The facts on bullying also provide information on what types of signs to look for in children who might be bullying others.

Becomes frequently violent

Has trouble controlling anger

Is manipulative and controlling of others and situations

Is quick to blame others

Does not accept responsibility for their actions

Needs to win or be the best at everything

Understanding these warning signs can help parents prevent their children from becoming bullies or help them not become a victim of a bully. Counseling or therapy are good methods in helping to treat a child who exhibits symptoms of bullying. Children who are victims may also need some kind of support or counseling to help resolve underlying issues of emotional feelings of inadequacy. Children who are confident and have higher self-esteem are less likely to fall prey to the attacks of bullying.

Sources: mychildsafety.net, http://www.stopbullying.gov/

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